I had looked at Graham’s OK Cupid profile but never wrote him because he looked and seemed really preppy. OK Cupid has a function where you can see who has viewed your profile, so he had seen that I had check out his profile, and he decided to write ME a message. It is SO funny that we “met” on OK Cupid because it is totally a vanilla site, BUT he is only of the filthiest men I’ve known! I mean that in the most flattering way.
So, he wrote me a message and right away we can discern we share kink as a main attraction. We chat about dirty things, and I am pleased to find that he is extremely dirty!!! I consider myself very experienced, yet he says things that I can barely understand!! LOL
Seemed there might be a true connection. He seems emotionally ready for a serious relationship, he is totally open minded, he is 5’11’’, cute, sweet, successful, and has a cute dog 😉 Of course I like all these things.
One thing I am not certain about is his ability to satisfy me sexually. I don’t want to put in his head an insecurity complex, so I haven’t said anything to him. Be he said his cock is 6.5 inches. Is that enough for me?! I hope I am not a size queen, but I fear that I am! So, that is a potential issue that we will learn more about when we meet in two weeks.
A second thing in my mind that I would need resolved is his muscularity. He doesn’t work out; he is not really muscular; and he weighs 175 pounds. The thing is… I REALLY like a guy with muscles. It’s important to me. I mean, I definitely want a guy who is buffer than me!!! I weigh a lot. I am a brick house solid with muscle!! So I would really like him to lift weights and get buff and weigh more like 200 pounds….the problem is that he hurt his back many years ago and it hurts him to lift weights and do different activities. As someone involved in fitness, I feel like I can help him with this, but I would need to be with him one on one….and did I mention he lives in southern California? So I can’t help him all the time.
So in about 2 weeks we will meet and see if he can satisfy me. If so, I think we will make a fantastic match. I can be his, and he can be mine 😉
If that is the case, I hope we can make progress on rehabbing his back and getting him to buffness.
And if it all works out long term, we will have to figure out the whole living situation : /
We are committing to abstinence to each other until we meet, so no hook ups for me until I see him! That will be almost one full month of abstinence! I am, of course, still plotting and scheming, flirting with people and sizing them up, going on a few dates, but definitely keeping this body on lock for Graham! 😉 If it works out with graham, I will be scheming to manifest things with his approval. If it doesn’t work out with him, I will use my list to return to previous levels of slutitude!
I am REALLY looking forward to meeting Graham, though!! I have a great excited feeling for a great future for us. Will keep you posted for sure!
Love, giggles, and gagging~
Lexxxy